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When you installed surveillance cameras complete with CCTV in your home as a precaution against nanny abuse and against burglar break-in, never thought that the abuse brother may also be captured on film. Thought that the long sibling rivalry between the two children is just that - simple sibling rivalry.
What to do if you find that sibling rivalry is the most virulent abuse of his brother steps up? Here is a brieflead.
What must be reported Sibling Abuse?
Before you judge your children go, very sure that what you see is, in fact, abuse CCTV brother. A definition is in order:
"Sibling Abuse of pathological abuse and trauma of a sibling over another of equal level. This can take the range of emotions, mostly verbal, physical and sexual abuse caused by older brothers or older, or a one - off basis or over a longer period of time. "
You should also sign youAbuse of brothers and sisters, which can be confirmed as scenes of CCTV:
* The abused child avoids the other significantly.
* There are changes in behavior, including sleep patterns and eating habits. You can install a small camera in the bedroom of the child for this purpose.
* The roles are always clearly defined: A child is the victim, the other the aggressor.
* There is a pattern of increasing intensity aggression, need not be infallibleThe eyes of the CCTV.
They should also consider risk factors when one is looking for a suspected abuse of brothers and sisters as frequent absences from home helped your favorite game and your collection of pornographic films. Of course this does not mean that all parts of the debt, but you can not deny that you're thinking adult in this case.
What can you do?
You must find time for the family with scenes psychiatrist CCTVor directly compared with the children about your suspicions. There are things you can do about the problem in the bud, especially if you have no idea of stifling sexual abuse. You can:
* Separate the children if the physical and verbal abuse occurs. If possible, avoid providing separate bedrooms for every little thing is possible nuclear war.
* Create a family gathering session to discuss matters of feelings and facts, and have mutualSolutions. The key is to find a solution for all concerned, rather than for the goats escape and Band-Aid solutions to find addresses.
* Make adjustments yourself, so you do not seem to play a favorite of children. Often, sibling rivalry and abuse of brothers and sisters are the result of a child feels like the underdog or the favorite book. In both cases, there is a problem that needs solutions.
* Help your child manage their anger and frustration. Moreimportant, it means that you are a model of the shell and the patience to your children - rather than managing your anger to manage your anger!
Continue to monitor the interactions of your children at home, even if they are at work. The CCTV system should help in this area, be sure not to know anything about it, or they can take their business elsewhere.
If all else fails, then you should seek professional help. However, is that the child understandsIf instead of push it to the therapist.
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